7 ways to know if your boyfriend is cheating on you

Love is unpredictable, as it can strike at any moment, which is why they say that love is blind.  When the right person comes to you at the right time, love becomes the sweetest moment of your life. What happens if you fall for the wrong person, who eventually loses love for you and begins cheating on you?

Some women make the mistake of not spotting the warning signs in time, which suggests that their partner may be engaging in a secret affair without their knowledge. Despite my discomfort in writing this, I will provide you with seven ways to determine if your partner is cheating on you.

1. Your Presence begins to irritate him

This particular behaviour is frustrating because I’m sure he used to love being around you, but now you realize that it’s all changing, and he’s more absent.

The truth is, when your man loses interest in you, he begins to avoid you because your presence irritates him, and he doesn’t want anything more than to get away from you. Please pay attention to this. This is how everything starts.

2. He regularly shows up late at night

My belief is that no job or friend should prevent a man from arriving home to his woman at his usual time. Sadly, some men use that excuse these days to avoid the woman they’ve lost interest in.

If you notice that your man is always arriving home late at night, it is possible that someone else is taking his time and attention right under your nose. You should either approach him or, even better, conduct an investigation to be on the safe side.

3. He Avoids eating your food

It is said that the closest thing to a man’s heart is food. If a man who used to like your cooking suddenly starts to avoid your food more often, it’s likely that he has fallen out of love with you and is seeing someone else. You must act quickly and investigate.

4. He Sneaks out to make or answer a call (Becomes very secretive with his phone)

I’m pretty sure this’s a classic cheating tactic and the most common thing a cheater does, but I wanted to give you more insight. Watch how your man answers and makes phone calls because no man will hide a phone call from his woman, no matter how bad it sounds.

If he speaks on the phone more frequently, especially late at night, then the chances are that he is seeing someone else.  Please pay attention to late night calls because they will happen more regularly. He will sneak out to answer calls whenever they come through. If you observe this type of conduct, it is highly probable that the other woman is missing him and therefore calling.

5. He begins to avoid sex with you

This point needs to be considered more often. When a man loves you, he will never grow tired of having sex with you.  Also, men are more sexually driven than women, so we shouldn’t make excuses.  If you start to notice that your man doesn’t want to have sex with you any more, I’m sorry to say this, but he’s getting it from someone else.

6. Every little thing you do leads to an argument

When your partner has lost their attraction towards you, he may begin to create a problem out of every action or inaction you take. Even if you move the mountains for him, nothing you do will impress him. Every effort you make to please him is met with a harsh response and criticism. 

7. He publicly avoids becoming intimate with you

Women love being intimate, and it’s perfectly alright for a woman to want to hold her man’s hand because it makes her feel safe from the outside world. If your man suddenly begins to avoid public displays of affection with you, the chances are that he is irritated by your presence and does not want the world to focus on both of you. He is becoming less interested because he has a more important someone in his heart.

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