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1. Maintain Your Dignity

Limit yourself to two phone calls when reaching out to someone. If they fail to return your calls, graciously assume they are preoccupied with more pressing matters.

2. Uphold Your Integrity

Return borrowed items promptly without being asked. This demonstrates your reliability, character, and commitment to integrity.

3. Show Respect on a First Date

Avoid choosing the most expensive items on the menu. Instead, opt for a moderate choice that shows you appreciate your date’s generosity without taking advantage of it.

4. Practice Active Listening

Avoid interrupting others, even if you think you know what they’re going to say. Instead, allow them to fully express their thoughts and opinions.

5. Use Your Manners

Maintain eye contact and give your undivided attention to the person speaking to you. Avoid looking at your phone or any other distraction while responding.

6. Offer Guidance Only When Requested

Refrain from offering unsolicited advice, as it can appear presumptuous or intrusive. Instead, wait until someone explicitly asks for your opinion or guidance.

7. Respect Boundaries

Avoid prying into sensitive or personal matters, such as someone’s marital status, family plans, or financial decisions.

8. Mind Your Business

When someone shares a photo with you on their phone, avoid swiping left or right to view other images. This is an invasion of their privacy.

9. Use Your Discretion

When a coworker shares that they have a medical appointment, refrain from asking intrusive questions about the nature of the appointment.

10. Show Appreciation and Gratitude

Express sincere gratitude when someone lends you a helping hand. A simple “thank you” or acknowledgement of their kindness can go a long way.

11. Practice Universal Respect and Kindness

Treat everyone with the same dignity and respect, regardless of their position or status.

12. Use Empathy and Discretion

Refrain from boasting about your wealth, accomplishments, or blessings in the presence of those who may be struggling financially or experiencing hardship.

13. Return Kindness and Generosity

When someone covers the fare for a cab ride, make it a point to reciprocate the kindness by paying for the next ride.

14. Show Respect through Non-verbal Cues

Remove your sunglasses as a sign of respect when interacting with someone, especially in a chance encounter.

15. Value Different People’s Perspectives

Respect and acknowledge differing opinions, even if they seem unconventional or contradictory to your views.

16. Practice Self-Reflection

Take time to reflect on your habits and behaviours. Identify areas for improvement and work on developing better social skills.

17. Develop Emotional Intelligence

Learn to recognize and manage your emotions. This will help you navigate social situations with more ease and empathy.

18. Cultivate Empathy and Compassion

Practice putting yourself in others’ shoes. Try to understand their perspectives and show compassion when needed.

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