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1. We Prioritize Convenience Over Depth

As we get older, our lives become busier, and we tend to settle for superficial connections. We may meet for coffee every few months or communicate via social media, but true friendships require effort and vulnerability. We must be willing to put in the time and effort to develop meaningful relationships.

2. We are too Guarded and Afraid to Be Vulnerable

Let’s face it, we’ve become so guarded that putting ourselves out there and being vulnerable is terrifying. It is as if everyone has become overly insecure. We fear being judged, rejected, or harmed. Therefore, we erect barriers and maintain a distance from others. But this is not the proper approach.

The truth is that true friendships demand that we be honest and open with each other, flaws and all. This path allows us to cultivate trust in ourselves and then in others.

3. We Surround Ourselves with Like-Minded People (But Forget to Challenge Each Other)

It is so simple to associate with people who share our interests, values, and sense of humour. However, genuine friendships frequently require us to be tested and grow outside our comfort zones. When we only spend time with people who share our interests, we miss out on opportunities for growth and deeper connections with people outside our circle.

4. We Don’t Invest Time and Effort

As I previously stated, genuine friendships do not develop overnight. They require consistent effort, active listening, and emotional labour. We often expect friends to appear or show up when we need them. However, the truth is that we must work hard to establish and maintain relationships so that they can trust us enough to be there for us.

5. We Settle for Fair-Weather Friends

It’s sometimes easier to stick with friends who are convenient or comfortable, even if they’re not truly supportive or involved. We may avoid conflict or difficult conversations, but true friendships require us to be honest and authentic, even when things are difficult.

Conclusion

In a world where genuine friendships are difficult to come by, it is time to be intentional about developing meaningful relationships. We can cultivate friendships that enrich our lives and help us grow by accepting challenges and being willing to work hard.