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1. They Keep You Grounded In the Best Way

Don’t let anyone fool you; having children is not a bad thing. Children are a blessing, and they will transform your life in ways you never imagined. They force you to slow down and smell the Capri Suns; in a constantly moving world, they are the ultimate reminder to be present. They seem to have a secret superpower that allows them to pause life’s chaos and force you to focus on the present.

You’ll laugh at the little things again, such as when they spill juice, and you think they’re hiding it. They teach you to appreciate the little things in life and to put the important things first. It serves as a reminder that life is about moments rather than checking boxes. When they’re tugging on your pant leg saying, “Play with me!”, tomorrow’s meeting doesn’t seem so urgent. The best thing about being a parent is that they help you stay grounded.

2. Children give you their Unconditional Love

I’m sure most of you can relate to number 2, which is based on personal experience. Regardless of your flaws, a child will always love you as if you have never been loved before. At that age, they aren’t concerned with your bank account or Instagram highlights; all they want is you. That kind of love is raw, unfiltered, and undeniably addictive. And, honestly, it is more than enough. It contains everything you’ll ever require at that time. Even on the bad days, they make you feel like the best parent in the world, smear kisses on your face, and crawl into bed with you. That’s what a child’s unwavering love is all about.

3. They will force You to Level Up

Let’s face it, parenting is the biggest game-changer. You’ll eventually notice it, even if you don’t notice it now. It’s as if life has suddenly gone into high gear, but in the best way possible. You discover strengths you didn’t realize you possessed, such as negotiating with tiny humans who believe they are in charge. You learn to wing it, trust your gut, and discover patience you didn’t know you had. To be honest, it’s the upgrade you didn’t realize you needed, and it’s a crash course in growth. You become the parent you never had, and that’s pretty cool.

4. Joy in the Little Things

Children are like reset buttons for your sense of wonder. They create things you never wanted to know or like. Suddenly, leaf piles are the greatest thing ever, and dad jokes are hilarious (mostly). They make you notice the little things, such as how fireflies light up your backyard or why dinosaurs are the most important topic in the world. Life is chaotic, but the moments are pure gold. Children will make you laugh harder, smile wider, and discover joy in places you had forgotten existed. It’s like looking at life from a new perspective.

5. Built-In Best Friends

Kids provide you with a best friend that you did not have to go to college to find. They’re your ride-or-die, cheer squad, and accomplices all rolled into one tiny person. You’ll bond over silly things like who can make the funniest face or eat the most goldfish crackers in one sitting. They’re the ones who’ll want to play 10 rounds of pretend, watch the same cartoon for the 20th time, and still high-five you like it’s their job. Having children means you have a support system that loves you regardless of what happens.

6. Wildcard to the Future

Children are like having a do-over, but better because they can write the script. You relive your life through their eyes, but now you’re in the front row, rooting for them. They encourage you to be more curious, dream bigger, and perhaps even finish that project you gave up on. It’s like a second chance at magic, but it’s all about them (bonus: they won’t judge your dance moves). The real prize is being able to watch them develop into their own wonderful selves. This is similar to seeing your life flash before you, but this time you are controlling it.